Learning to Stand Alone
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Learning to Stand Alone
Where the Journey Begins
💻 Computer Basics
Start feeling comfortable online — one step at a time
Do you get nervous using a computer or smartphone?
Do words like “browser,” “email,” or “app” feel confusing or overwhelming?
You're not alone — and you're not too late to learn.
I’m Elli, and I offer warm, patient sessions for absolute beginners. Whether you’re an adult, a senior, or someone who simply never had the chance to learn, I’m here to help you feel confident and in control with everyday digital tools.
🌟 What We Can Learn Together
These relaxed 1-on-1 sessions are customized to your needs and pace. You can learn how to:
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🔒 Use the internet safely and navigate with confidence
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📧 Set up and use email
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📝 Understand online forms and passwords
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🛍️ Get started with online banking or shopping
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🗂️ Organize your files, photos, and apps
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📱 Use Zoom, WhatsApp, and helpful everyday tools
Bring your own device (laptop, tablet, or phone) and we’ll work together step by step. No stress. No judgment. Just real support.
🕰️ Session Details
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💻 Online sessions available anywhere
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📍 In-person available in Leiden, Netherlands & in Thessaloniki Greece
Each session is tailored to your comfort level — go as slow or as fast as you like!
✉️ Ready to Get Started?
Let’s make technology feel friendly — not scary.
Send a message to book a session or ask a question:
📩 connect.withelli@gmail.com
💡 Tip: If you’ve ever thought “I’m not good with computers,” I’m here to show you that you can be — with the right support.
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