Learning to Stand Alone
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Elli Z. Georgiadou
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Learning to Stand Alone
Where the Journey Begins
🌿 A New Chapter: With Elli Is Now on Social Media
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Dear reader,
This little corner of the internet — With Elli — began as a quiet space to write, reflect, and share soft, honest thoughts about life, healing, and everything in between. And now, I’m gently stepping into a new chapter:
🕊️ With Elli is now on social media.
This wasn’t a quick decision. As someone who values slowness and sincerity, I’ve often felt unsure about joining the fast-moving world of social platforms. But I realized something: these platforms can also be used mindfully — as places for connection, inspiration, and sharing small pieces of truth with those who might need it.
🔗 You can find all my social media links here:
Whether you’ve been reading from the beginning or you’re just arriving — thank you. Your presence means more than I can put into words.
I hope these new spaces allow us to connect in meaningful, kind-hearted ways.
With care,
Elli 🌸
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